over at GNO, there's a few of us who decided to challenge ourselves last week to perform a random act of kindness.
i talked with my girls and hubs about what we could do...we reserve some funds each month out of our giving to put towards a current or urgent need that we find. i think it's important to let the kids see how we give as family...and they should be part of that decision too.
as we were talking, and eating chinese...come on, you know there would be eating...i open my fortune cookie. and this is it!!
i was out getting a few minutes of alone time and decided to pay hubs forward by getting jiffy lube to do the oil change. while i was there, i remembered how hard it was being a single mom. i remembered that the little things, like oil changes, suddenly became bigger things and honestly, more expensive things. *light bulb!!!*
thomas rang me up for my oil change and asked if they had any scheduled appointments that i could pay for. he looked at me a little odd...and said, 'you know someone coming?'.
i told him i just wanted to pay for someone's oil change...or whatever.
this is the point where i saw thomas light up. he said, 'that is really awesome. any reason?'
'nope. just want to pass along some good cheer, that's all.'
'ok. well, let's do it then.'
thomas got the gift card set up {{{getting a quick lesson from another store}}} and smiled the entire time.
'would you like to sign the card or put your phone number on it?'
'no. i'll write one simple word. blessings.'
'this has never happened here before. it's really just so nice. do you have anyone in particular you want to give it to?'
'thomas, you decide.'
'really? if it's ok with you, i'd like to give it to someone who really needs it.'
i told him i thought that would be great...even one of the peeps who work there if he thought it would be best used.
i drove out of jiffy lube with $30 less in my pocket, and my heart overflowing with joy of remembering thomas smiling and the thought of someone getting a little extra when they get an oil change...seems like a weird place, but why not?
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Congrats on being featured!!!
Congrats in being featured on SITS.
:)Rachel
hey chickie congrats on your day in the spotlight!!
i am loving the new look!
Have a great week!
Found you through SITS. Congrats on being a FB.
And look at you - the featured blog of the day... Congratulations!!!
Blessings,
Kelly
It has been an awesome experience to be a part of something bigger than yourself. Way to have the Christmas spirit.
-sandy toes
That happened to me at the Starbucks drive thru once. The car in front of me paid for my coffee which put a huge smile on my face...so I drove away before they could change their minds and charge me anyway...just kidding. I paid for the coffee of the car behind me too. I hope they kept it going. At least for a little while.
Have a wonderful day! I read your featured posts too but couldn't see where to leave a comment? Are they closed?
~K
http://thistlesandmapleleaves.wordpress.com/
Congrats on your SITS day!
Happy SITS day to you!!
What a great thing to do!! Just awesome!!
I love your blog design. The little chirpies are so cute!
Congratulations on being the featured blog!!!!!
BTW: If you didn't know, references to the RAK posts are going in GNO's first newsletter. For a chance to see your name in lights, visit http://mommygossip-gno.blogspot.com and subscribe to the newsletter. This is so awesome. What a wonderful start to my day :).
Wonderful.
Congratulations on your SITS day! :)
your family is BEAUTIFUL.
I've spent the last two hours out here, via SITS and I'm just in love with your site, your spirit and for some reason I think today, more than any other day, I really needed to be pointed out here.
Thanks for sharing your light, and your family with us.
Merry Christmas!
I hope to one day soon pay for a meal of someone in a restaurant or doing fast food. Sharing the love of Christ!
I love the post A Lesson In Not Being Stupid. I have family & friends that are adopted/have adopted.
And I could write a post on the stupid things people say to the parents of twins as well. Like asking how I got pregnant (naturally or fertility drugs?) It was natural, but they don't need to know that. And every time I heard "I'm glad it's you and not me" when my girls were little I would reply "Yes, and so do the babies!" ;)
Someday people will learn. We Hope.
stoppin by from SITS and I see you completly rock too!
LORI
Congrats on being todays FB over at SITS!! Have a great day!!
Always,
Holli
Thank you so much!
Jamie
Congrats on being features on SITS!
Congrats on being Sausy..
And Congrats on being the feature blog!! So CUTE!!
Best holiday wishes,
Chris
www.curbyscloset.com
I guess we can be quiet about our RAK right... but honestly... if it inspires others, then that is another blessing right?
Enjoy the Holidays!
@carissarogers
http://clippergirlssavingspot.blogspot.com/2008/12/5-sunday-nites-of-free-redbox-rentals.html
Merry Christmas.
Have a wonderful and blessed Christmas.
Keep spreading cheer.
Great post!
I try to always make eye contact and smile a big fat smile at people that look sad or angry. Sometimes they frown at me, but mostly they hesitate and then smile right back at me! That feels good...
I've decided for my New Year's resolution to volunteer at least once a month for the next year. Every single little bit helps.
Found you from SITS - congrats on being the queen of the day over there!
I love to PIF - so glad you were able to experience that 'great to be alive' feeling ...
Congratulations on being the FB today!
I found you through SITS, but I need to take a stroll over to GNO. I missed it this week.
Pen
I love you blog design!! Happy day to you :-)
Thanks for sharing your story!
Merry Christmas!
Congrats on being Saucy today.
xo...deb (I will pass this story on!)
Congrats on being a featured blog on SITS.
Congrats on your day!
KATY
My Fabulous Foto Friday is a weekly blog where you post a picture or more and write what it is about and what it means to you. Here's more info:
http://ourlifesjourney02.blogspot.com/2008/12/fabulous-foto-friday.html
It would be great if you can join in the weekly fun!!!
I can't be left out so here's a little from me also.
:-)
Happy SITS day!
YOU ROCK!!!
That is totally awesome of you to have done! Like you said, weird place to have done it, but frieking awesome. Not only for the person that received it, but it looks like even the guy that worked there was touched by what you did!!! Hopefully they'll pass it along too!
Well, I am definitely going to do something too...... I love the site random acts of kindness, where you can go and post your stories for others to get inspired and hopefully do the same or come up with their own.
Anyways, sorry for the super long comment, but thank you for sharing such awesome news! God Bless you!
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