do you have one of those "god sent" bloggy friends? well, i have a few, but pam {from you're gonna miss this }is one of the best! pam and i have weirdly parallel lives...i mean, we're totally different, but there are many likenesses. we met up in blogland and have been chatting first on comments, then email, then twitter, then texting...and then, we finally met! oh you know there was diet coke, good food and THE CHEESECAKE FACTORY red velvet cheesecake involved!!! we talked. we laughed. we totally ate!!! multi racial family divorced lovers of jesus big fams photographers { her ... me } kids struggling with ADHD birth and adoptive momma's prayer partners IEP's and school stuff and so much more.... so anyway, thank God for pam...and for connecting us thru this crazy place we call blogland. {i just have to say, i have lost a ton of inches...and this picture by the demon camera shows NONE of it. i think i'm losing all the inches from my body and it'...